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In life, this is the perfect mix for anything: being who you are with an undertone of your opposite. The first thing you got to realize is that as human beings, we're all born complete. There's no such thing as a child who's feminine and masculine. Genetically speaking, we may have preferences but naturally, we're all born complete and we all have many sides to us that want to come out particularly the sides that are contradicting to our main character. Those parts that are contradicting inside of us also goes against society--so you also get backlash and as a result, those qualities that only come when you express your opposite sex energy, it's drummed out by society.
When you really think about it, children, boys are sensitive when they're young and as they grow older, it becomes drummed out by society. Females are naturally adventurous and willful creatures and they love to transform their environment but it gets drummed out as they grow older. As we grow older, we conform to standards and suppress the sides that the people around us don't want to have. When that part of our personality becomes drummed out, the voice that comes of that personality and the character of who you are also dies--but it never really goes away.
The thing is that when you grow older, you don't notice that you are almost like everyone else. You think you're unique but then you encounter a person who's unrepressed and you encounter a person who has integrated all of the sides of their personality and through contrast, you're able to self-reflect upon your own limited range of personality that has been suppressed. You feel your own suppression through seeing the difference in that person's freedom of movement.
We want a complete expression of your personality so what you got to do is to get a hold of the middle parts of your personality--the parts that are not masculine or feminine--because naturally, you go to the extreme to fit the role. If you're a woman, you try to be feminine but inside of you you feel a certain aggressive side that wants to come out and it'll only come out once it's over. What you want to do is to learn to embrace that side despite the person you're around.
That's why I tell you ladies to do the things that I say: keep your distance, don't text that much-- that's a masculine thing. The whole thing of being outcome independent and the whole thing of keeping a distance is masculine energy. I tell you guys to be yourself but have a hint of masculinity in how you text. In person, you could be yourself but in text, you have coldness.
What you want to do then if you're somebody who's emotionally strong, you want to get in touch with your soft side. How do you do it? Whenever a situation arises and you normally do one thing, do the opposite. If somebody yells at you and you normally agree with them, do the opposite. If somebody is trying to sell you something and you normally listen to them, do the opposite. Do the opposite as an exercise. If you normally respond fast, respond slow and vice versa. If you're in a relationship, if you normally say no more often, say yes. If you normally say yes a lot then say no more often particularly with guys that you like. Do the opposite.
Also, you have to sense the kind of projection that the guy's putting on you. A lot of women think that eating or farting is not a feminine thing but the thing is, you have to stop trying to live up to what men see and think as feminine. Now, I'm not telling you to be masculine just to show off to the guys. What you got to do is go with the moment and not try to be masculine for the point of it. Try to be more assertive.
There's natural aggression inside of you, tap into that. Embrace that inner side. Tap into your inner father and embrace it. Whenever you feel cowardly, take a deep breath and do the opposite. If you do this, you may not results now but over the long run, by embracing your masculine in a conscious healthy way, you're gonna see that people are gonna begin noticing and treating you differently.
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